Thursday, April 28, 2011

Holding your tongue is a piece of work...

...and I sure as heck have figured that out the hard way.  No matter how old you are there will ALWAYS be some type of drama.  Can't avoid it, so might as well be in it and say nothing to keep it up.  I don't mean be in the talking behind someone's back "in it", I'm just saying that if you are apart of drama that deals with you then you have to be in the drama.  All you can do is take the high road and hold your tongue.  I feel some days that's like a job you should get paid for.  I mean seriously, sometimes I literally bite my tongue because I want to say something so bad but I know that if I do then it's all just going to go down the highway past 20 18-wheelers and almost killing yourself 15 out of those 20 trucks.  Probably a bad simile but oh well, made sense to me.  Anyways, my lesson that I've learned from the past few days is that holding your tongue and killing people with kindness make YOU feel better in the long run rather than just being a jerk to someone who does you wrong.



When you are tempted-
"Consider it pure joy, my brothers, whenever you face trails of many kinds"
James 1:2